this month has been a month with rapid development! in the blink of an eye our baby is turning into a big boy.
daxton went from standing up and walking with his walker, to walking 1 step, to walking 9 steps, then walking 27 steps, and then walking all the time. it's amazing to see those little legs walking all over the house. will and i still stand in awe every time we see that fancy foot work! sometimes he'll get going a little too quickly and get stumbled up, but for the most part he's trucking around really well. he'll still sometimes forget (early in the morning or after a nap) and resort to a crawl, but when we ask him if he can stand up and show us his "walkings" he'll hop into action. we're excited to see where these little legs will go!
daxton celebrated his second Easter this past month. he had a great time at our church's Easter egg hunt where he hunted for a couple of eggs (he was not so sure what this was all about and he had no sense of competition so he just let the other children take the eggs they wanted. it was quite tender and sweet.), danced to music on daddy's shoulders, and got to pet a baby goat and lamb. sunday he got a little Easter basket with a doc mcstuffin's doll, some veggie tales dvds, a praise song dvd, and a couple of dvds about Jesus' life. it took him about a week to do enough investigating to see that daddy had put cheddar bunny crackers in his plastic eggs. we had a great time at church and then after dax's attempted afternoon nap we headed to our friend's house for Easter dinner. dax had a great time playing with some friends from church and checking out their tupperware collection. he sat at the big people table and enjoyed some sweet potato casserole, but did not want to let us feed him much of anything else so he could have enough time to check out their cook book collection. we were so thankful to spend this day with our sweet fellow, even though he told me no photos were allowed.
daxton is testing his authority with meal times these days. he'll inspect the food before it goes into his mouth, or he'll check it out with his tongue and fingers and pull it right back out if he does not like the feel or taste of it. he's gotten pretty vocal when he does not get his way and we're trying to find a balance between not letting him win and actually being able to enjoy dinner time. we've determined that he seems to love saucy things, so i am going to work on preparing things with more sauces to see if we can keep him eating green foods without the expense of our eardrums and sanity.
dax's favorite game these days is "peeky boo". most people call this "peek-a-boo", but here - we've always got new names for things. his latest trick is to play this game with daddy on either side of the kitchen island. we can get him going anywhere by just saying "peeky boo", but he loves going round and round the island with daddy - never knowing where he will pop out. his laughter is deep and sometimes takes his breath away. it's so intoxicatingly sweet we just love that little "peeky boo" monster.
dax is still having a fondness for "raffie" (the giraffe). we recently went cold turkey without the passie except when in the crib. we've given it to him a handful of times when he was not in the crib when his days were excessively long and he was expected to be respectful to others eardrums, but otherwise we've reserved it for sleepy times. now when he wakes up you can unclip it from his shirt and ask him if he will leave the passie with raffie and he cheerfully tosses passie over to raffie for her to nap while we're out of the room. we never imagined we'd be able to get rid of the passie so "easily" after we'd tried several times and only been able to last about 30 minutes. however, i think this time he was just ready to let it go.
leaving the passie for sleeping has also helped with his chatter. he's doing a lot more talking and jabber. we've gotten some new words like "okay", "i do", "i go", "boom", "a bye", "a spoon", and "ya, ya, ya". he's also started mimicking us when we make certain sounds or say certain things. when i sing him the abc song he will hum it back to me using the same annunciation to my version of the song. he's definitely not saying his abcs, but we're making some interesting progress with this. we still get our favorite "uh oh" and "dank you" (or "chank you"), and at dinner time if he does like what he is eating he will certainly keep giving you the "mmmmm" so you can keep the applesauce coming. his "a bye" is usually followed with a wave to himself (backwards) - and he loves to say "a bye" to himself when he sees his adorable reflection in the mirror. he still usually does not say his goodbyes until someone has left - which to him we guess makes sense because he says it after they are really gone. ;-)
dax has gone from taking his baths in his baby tub to now taking his big boy baths in the regular bathtub. our little fella had stretched out too big for the baby tub and had his little feet hanging over the edge. at first he was not so sure why we'd changed the situation up on him, but within minutes he thought it was pretty awesome to be in a bigger tub with more splash room and more toys. now he'll do funny things like not wanting to sit down in the tub so one of us will have to hold his torso while the other one bends his legs to get him in a sitting position. most of the time, once he is sitting he's fine to stay there, but it's like he's just like i don't think i want to sit right now. silly goose. he also likes to get everything out of the tub. he'll toss each toy out one by one and even send the washrags overboard. will and have to be on guard to catch things or the entire bathroom is afloat.
dax has been attempting to give up his second nap of the day. mommy hopes he'll keep up with it because he is certainly happier when he takes it, but sometimes he just cannot fall asleep. he's working on his upper molars and they are really giving him a fit so we're hoping that once those teeth quit pestering him his little sleep routine will resume with getting enough resties each day. usually if he goes down for his nap and he does not fall asleep before the time the sleep sheep's ocean waves stop lapping, i know he's not going to be able to make it happen so i go get him and try to keep him busy with some other activity.
daxton had an awesome visit with his birth mother and half-brother this past weekend. we picked them up and brought them to our house. we gave them a little tour so they could see dax's favorite hang out spots and put a real place with all of the photos we've sent them in the past 17 months. it was great to see their smiling faces and catch up on how everyone was doing. we had fun playing with blocks, the wii, and bubbles in the front yard. it was sad to have to take them home, but we know we'll see them again very soon!
july 27, 2014 - submitted formal application online via portal
june 26, 2014 - pre-approval received
june 23, 2014 - submitted pre-application to bethany christian services
november 15, 2013 - prayerfully considering adoption #2
march 6, 2012 - final decree of adoption received - "said minor declared adopted for life"
november 17, 2011 - revocation period expired
november 10, 2011 - daxton comes home from the hospital
november 8, 2011 - meet our sweet darling deer for the 1st time
november 7, 2011 - phone call from bethany that this sweet mommy had gone into labor
november 4, 2011 - confirmed match
november 3, 2011 - face to face meeting went fantastically well - we feel optomistic about this opportunity
october 31, 2011 - phone call for possible match - face to face meeting set up for november 3
september 6, 2011 - profile book added back to active family list
september 6, 2011 - failed match - mother elected not to place
august 4, 2011 - face to face meet up went well - we feel strongly that this is the match God intended
august 2, 2011 - phone call for a possible match - face to face meeting set up for august 4
june 17, 2011 - officially formally waiting
june 10, 2011 - profile books sent to nc offices
june 9, 2011 - profile books received
june 9, 2011 - web profile online
june 2, 2011 - received completed home assessment for review
may 31, 2011 - profile book ordered
may 19, 2011 - final home study meeting
may 10, 2011 - second of three home study meetings
april 29, 2011 - first of three home study meetings
april 26, 2011 - second portion adoption seminar raleigh, nc
april 1, 2011 - adoption seminar arden, nc
march 20, 2011 - completed pre-assessment paperwork and fedexed back to bcs
february 22, 2011 - formal application approved
february 2011 - submit formal application
january 2011 - send requested supporting documentation
december 2010 - submit initial adoption application with bethany christian services
august 2010 - will is given the green light from johns hopkins university that his surgery was effective
july 2010 - speak with another adoptive family working with bethany christian services and affirm that we feel most comfortable with this agency
june 2010 - resubmit for a few new adoption paperwork packets so we can narrow down the agencies
april 2010 - will undergoes decompression surgery (brain surgery) - and we see now more than ever why we are on an adoption journey to build our family
march 2010 - mri leads to appointment with neurosurgeon and diagnosis of arnold chiari malformation with syringomyelia
february 2010 - will has unexplained back pain which leads us to have an mri
june 2009 - january 2010 - sorting through all packets, reading blogs and forums, and trying to decide what agency to work with
may 2009 - request adoption information packets from multiple agencies
april 2009 - we see God's plan for adoption so clearly
april 2009 - adrianne put on femera and ovidrel. after first series of medications - adrianne ends up in er with allergic reaction.
april 2009 - determined there is "no known cause" for our infertility
april 2009 - adrianne has hysterosalpingogram to confirm no tubal blockage on the left side
march 2009 - referred to infertility specialist and both undergo testing
august 2008 - march 2009 - still wondering what path we're on
july 2008 - after weeks of putting it off and rechecking - still no growth - d&c was performed - second baby sent to heaven
july 2008 - go to another doctor who confirms baby is not growing
july 2008 - doctor cannot find heartbeat, tells us we need to schedule a d & c
june 2008 - bfp
may 2004 - may 2008 - trying to find our way - submitted an inquiry for adoption paperwork - and continued month after month of bfn
april 2004 - sweet baby sent to heaven
april 2004 - sonogram shows stagnant growth, asked to not leave the country on our mexico trip - was told pregnancy would not last
april 2004 - doctor confirms no heartbeat
march 2004 - bfp
february 2004 - we feel the timing is right and go off birth control and begin ttc
1997 - 2004 - adrianne has continued pain from cysts that are monitored on a quarterly basis, however no further surgery was required
spring 1996 - diagnosed pcos with 9cm cyst consuming right ovary and fallopian tube. had removal of ovary, tube, cyst and were told adrianne may never get pregnant.